Barely an hour into the first day of orientation for pharmacy school we were given the first, of what would be many, lectures on professionalism. We were told how our daily actions, both during and after work/school, would reflect both the image of the school and of the profession. Due to this, we were to maintain professional decorum at all times.
There was also some insinuation that our actions outside of school could be used as a reason for dismissal.
Think about it though, how realistic is it to expect an individual to maintain professional standards at every waking moment? Am I not allowed to see movies with an R-rating in case a patient sees that I may be viewing something inappropriate? Am I not allowed to consume a beer at a restaurant for fear of a patient judging me?
Where precisely is the line?
For whatever reason, too many people today expect perfection. In the mind of the public, there can be absolutely no errors in dispensing or prescribing or diagnosing without an immense amount of retribution. Life is, of course, immensely precious and people feel wronged when something goes wrong. So-called 'News' shows such as Dateline NBC feed off this fact and help propagate the incessant need for perfection.
However as Alexander Pope once said, "To Err is to be human." We are not machines designed for perfection, we are human beings. We have faults, we make mistakes even though we may strive to mitigate them as much as possible. It's one of the reasons why I repeatedly say here that failure is our greatest strength. Perfection is a wondrous illusion, namely because of the impracticality of it.
Humans, well most humans, cannot restrain their emotions every hour of every day behind a professional facade. In fact, it has been shown in numerous studies that bottling up one's emotions has negative consequences. Health care professionals have one of the most mentally taxing daily jobs, yet we are all expected to maintain professional composure at all times.
Due to this, many choose to vent their frustrations not only for their own mental sanity, but to be able to continue to effectively practice. We all have to let that facade crumble at some point or another, and the majority choose to do so outside of the public realm. Whether it is through a blog, Twitter or even a friend, it is where we are able to let our guard down and shed our concerns, fears and worries.
The evolution of devices like blogs and Twitter may prove to be one of the most beneficial outlets for health professionals in their history. It now only spurs new and creative ideas, but let's professionals bond across state and even national boundaries if only to reassure all that they are not alone in your frustrations. Pharmacy blogs like Your Pharmacist May Hate You and The Angry Pharmacist have quite literally helped to relieve the immense amount of stress felt in pharmacies across the country.
For those of us who may be shy when discussing our most personal problems, professional or otherwise, the fact these devices exist is a godsend.
While those popular blogs exist as a source of venting for the profession, it has lead to the creation of other blogs with slightly different focuses such as Eric, RPh and The Redheaded Pharmacist that exist to help better the profession. And this example is just describing the pharmacy blogosphere, not even considering the countless medical blogs in existence.
Yes, some of these blogs and Twitter accounts are crass, using language that would never be used in an actual professional setting. Yet they speak more truth than any professional document you may see coming out of organizations like APhA or AMA.
Why is this?
Because professionalism is self-limiting in that we are all expected to maintain the same methodologies and persona to standardize patient care. In itself, there is nothing wrong with this, but outside of a professional setting how else are we to spur innovation? How are we to explore the good, and bad, of our profession? How else are we to relieve the stress we all feel and actually enjoy life?
We all carefully consider federal and state laws, often artfully crafting responses to ensure the innocent are protected. Every work place has similar gossip-style discussions, and yet similar health care professional discussions are draped in anonymity in comparison. This is a fact even more impressive when considering the amount of venting we all do.
And venting is just that, an outpouring of frustration. What is said during this time should not be construed as a representative of who they are as a person and a professional. The majority of the time if someone stubs their big toe, their first reaction is to spout off a slew of words that would make a sailor blush. Does this mean that we should judge their response and formulate that they are crass and unprofessional?
Of course not.
Expectations are a wonderful device when used properly, but only when they are based in reality. Today the expectations for not only health care professionals, but for individuals as a whole are unrealistically high. Before you decry what and how they say something, consider the benefits they earn from doing so.
Would you rather have a practitioner who is constantly uptight, concerned with ensuring that they abide by all expectations and standards while they treat you? Or would you rather have the practitioner who is able to release their frustrations outside of work and remains relaxed and clear headed?
Before you judge and before you point fingers remember that you are not speaking about a device spouting off medical advice, but a person with a personality and emotions. They have the same needs and desires as anyone else in the world.
If anything it's a good thing others can see these frustrations under the premise that they realize we are not as infallible as they assume us to be. Because of they see that we are not infallible perhaps, just perhaps, they will no longer operate under the guise of perfection.
One can dream, can they not?